A live 90-minute masterclass

Breaking theBlueprint

You’ve built a life you’re proud of. It’s time to build the relationship to match.

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Monday 21st September · 7pm · Zoom

Heather Garbutt, psychotherapist and love coach

You’ve met different men. You’ve had different relationships but somehow it’s always the same ending.

Every one of us has a relationship blueprint, the unconscious pattern of thoughts, feelings and choices that shapes who we're drawn to and how we show up in love. You're here because yours isn't working for you anymore and that's not because there's something wrong with you. It's because nobody's ever actually sat down and shown you what your blueprint is. That's exactly where we start.

For the price of one month of your Match membership, you get more than forty years of psychotherapy and relationship coaching, aimed squarely at the pattern that's actually been holding you back.

What you’ll walk away with

  • 01You’ll know why finding love was never simply about luck or timing
  • 02The three layers of your relationship blueprint: what you think, what you feel and what you do without meaning to
  • 03Why familiar can feel like chemistry, even when it hurts
  • 04Where your blueprint actually came from and why it was never a flaw in you
  • 05The first real step towards rebuilding it
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Who this is for

Any woman who has been dating for a while now, trying her best and doing everything she thinks she's supposed to but still ending up disappointed. If you've ever sat with a friend and said “why does this keep happening to me,” this session is for you.

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A little about me

I have spent more than forty years as a psychotherapist, sitting with people at some of the most honest, unguarded moments of their lives. I'm also an accredited Calling in the One Coach, the exact framework I'll be walking you through in this session.

I didn't come to this work solely as a professional. I've done it myself, asked myself the same uncomfortable questions and found the relationship on the other side of it, one that has lasted and given me joy. I know what it feels like to be exactly where you are now, wondering if it will be different this time. It can be and I've spent my career since then guiding women on how to get there.

What women say

“I feel so much more satisfied in my life. I am in a happy relationship and it's a relationship that I'm still able to grow in and learn from. It's one that I've had a lot of fun in and really enjoy, the kind I had only dreamt of before, you know. It's lovely that it's come into reality. I had that power to manifest it with you, being more confident with myself. I feel more powerful.”

The details

  • Live training on Zoom, with space to reflect and write as we go, so you leave with something real, not just an hour of listening
  • 60 minute live training
  • 30 minutes of live Q&A
  • Monday 21st September - 7pm
  • £37
  • Can’t make it live - replay sent to everyone who books
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